Posts made in October, 2013

Video 6 – Bachelorette 2013 – Episode 1 Analysis

It’s a new season of The Bachelorette!   Are first impressions important?     As we showed in previous videos, first impressions are very important. In this six video, we continue our analysis of the first episode of the Bachelorette by looking at the limo introductions. This video features a guy who goes super aggressive and sexual right from the start. It’s the prototypical bad boy approach, but he went way too far....

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(Females) How to Communicate Sexual Innuendo?

  “Many a small thing has been made large by the right kind of advertising”       Women face many dilemmas when it comes to sex and communicating their interests.   How do you indicate interest without appearing too easy or slutty?   Do you just keep silent and pretend to think sex is something evil or nothing of interest?   A recent article/video on Yahoo attempted to address this issue...

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When to Change Your Facebook Relationship Status

  Your Facebook profile is a commercial for YOU!!!         A recent survey on Mashables (link) asked about when you should change your relationship status on Facebook. It’s fun to read, but YOUR decision should NOT be influenced by a survey. Here are some tips though: Talk about it in ADVANCE with your significant other. Think about the worse case scenario. (Are you OK with the embarrassment of changing it back if...

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Optimacy Video – The Bachelorette – 2 Ways to Know if You’re in Love

The first step towards wisdom is calling things by their right names. Can you define love??? Understanding love gives you a huge advantage in diagnosing and managing your emotions. If you don’t define “love” for yourself, then you will be a prisoner to whatever definition is applicable to the other person. In this video, we take a comprehensive approach to defining love and teach you the secrets to know when it is REAL! It includes an excerpt...

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Bigorexia ???

  “Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are”         A recent article on the CBS website featured a new concept called “Bigorexia”. While this article probably exaggerates the negative health consequences of working out, there is a bigger “mental illness” with bigorexia, anorexia, plastic surgery, etc. There is an epidemic in this country of poor body image and low...

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