Imagine radiating an energy that attracts people to you automatically.
We are inherently drawn to competent, confident and secure people.
They appear credible, interesting, and powerful.
You cannot MAKE someone be attracted to you, but you CAN make yourself an attractive person.
Almost no one is out of your league when you combine –competence, confidence and self-esteem.
With these traits, you no longer NEED pre-planned routines or gimmicks. You become naturally attractive and act intuitively. We like to call this state - Optimacy.
Optimacy’s Chapter 1 starts with building your competence, confidence and self-esteem.
There is no point discussing where to meet people, conversation skills, dating, sex, etc. until you learn the basic tools required to succeed.
Anyone who’s tried advice from one of the many pseudo “pickup artists” online, understands this point even more. None of their pickup routines work for the average Joe because they are missing the basics.
You won’t learn to play golf by watching Tiger Woods swing.
Like learning to play the piano,Optimacy guides you from Chopsticks all the way to Beethoven. Our approach is similar to any formal educational program. It’s broken into chapters and meant to be read in order.
There is no rush!
Take time to fully digest and practice the various skills in each Chapter before graduating to the next.
- The psychology of self-esteem and the primary causes for issues in this area.
- Simple tips to improve your self-esteem and address insecurities.
- Ways to enhance your image and first impressions.
- Posture secrets to exhibit confidence and attract people without saying a word.
- Fashion secrets to ensure you are maximizing your physical attributes and demonstrating confidence via your wardrobe.
- Charisma and other personality skills that enhance your likability and attractiveness.
- Self motivating techniques to ensure you are mentally focused and in the proper frame of mind.
- A sure-fire trick to become the life of the party and generate instant attraction.
After Chapter 1, you will have a solid foundation of knowledge for more advanced skills.
If you follow our entire program, Optimacy takes you to a place you can only imagine right now.
Please proceed to the next lesson - Secrets to Looking Attractive - where you will learn more about our approach and begin building your foundation.
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