Chapter 3 – Advanced Material

Sex 101 – Overview

“Sex is a part of nature…   I go along with nature.”   Marilyn Monroe     Humans are the only species that experiences so much anxiety, fear, and ignorance regarding sex. Even though we are instinctively hardwired to have “sex”...certain cultural and religious beliefs have influenced many people’s beliefs and actions. In some cases, the “influence” has resulted in shame, repression,...

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Safe Sex

  “Guys who don’t wear condoms should be forced to have sex with other guys who don’t wear condoms.”     DISCLAIMER: This information is not intended to replace the advice of a doctor.   Safe Sex   Although safe sex is not a popular subject, any discussion of sex would be incomplete without addressing it. Let’s start first with the bad news…   Abstinence is the only 100%...

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Video 6 – Bachelorette 2013 – Episode 1 Analysis

It’s a new season of The Bachelorette!   Are first impressions important?     As we showed in previous videos, first impressions are very important. In this six video, we continue our analysis of the first episode of the Bachelorette by looking at the limo introductions. This video features a guy who goes super aggressive and sexual right from the start. It’s the prototypical bad boy approach, but he went way too far....

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Optimacy Video – The Bachelorette – 2 Ways to Know if You’re in Love

The first step towards wisdom is calling things by their right names. Can you define love??? Understanding love gives you a huge advantage in diagnosing and managing your emotions. If you don’t define “love” for yourself, then you will be a prisoner to whatever definition is applicable to the other person. In this video, we take a comprehensive approach to defining love and teach you the secrets to know when it is REAL! It includes an excerpt...

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How to Get Out of the Friend Zone – The Critical First 4 Steps

  “How to Get Out of the Friend Zone”           Famous Friendzone Quotes   I love you like a brother”   “You’re so nice.  I wouldn’t want to lose our friendship”   Can you relate to the quotes above? If not, maybe this story sounds familiar…   How to Get Out of the Friend Zone Case Study   Four years ago, George met Brittany at a mutual friend’s...

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Tweets, Memes, Funny Pics and Quotes

Funny pics and quotes about relationships                 There are worse places to start than Hugh Hefner. He is the ultimate Pickup Artist, and this pic is not only funny but true. It also goes to show that you don’t have to be an Alpha Male PUA with an amazing physique.  You might think that you need money to compensate, but what earned Hugh Hefner all that money was his intelligence and being a...

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What Women Want ???

  If you believe everything you read… You better not read.       According to a recent study referenced by Lisa Collier Cool on Yahoo! Health…Women prefer skinny guys over masculine guys with square jaws and muscles. You can read the complete article here, but it goes on to say there is no link between testosterone and “hotness”. “We found that a man’s weight serves as a better indicator of the...

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4 Things That Kill Her Sex Drive – Men’s Health Article

 “Relationships switch from passionate to compassionate between 6 and 30 months”   Robin Milhausen, Ph.D. sex researcher in Ontario         Wonder why she is losing interest in sex?   An article by Mens Health attempted to solve this issue.   Unfortunately, the article failed to deliver, so we have a special Chapter on our website – Related Dating Advice from the Web – that addresses online...

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How to Get Over a Break Up (Part 1)

“Don’t cry because it’s over… Smile because it happened.”   Dr. Seuss         Getting over a break up can be a painful process. Some feelings are unavoidable, but there are steps you can take to heal much quicker. Conversely…   Dealing with the break up in an unhealthy manner will have negative consequences that may linger indefinitely.   The first rule for getting over a...

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How to Know if Your Partner is a ‘Keeper’?

The stakes in dating are high.   Break-ups can be very painful and cause long-term issues.   Wouldn’t it be nice to have a crystal ball to know if things will last?       New relationships always feel great…for a while. The challenge is diagnosing who has long-term potential or not. The longer we stay in the wrong relationship…the tougher the recovery. After a break-up, the feelings of wasted time and...

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