Self-esteem, Confidence and Appearance

11 Requirements for Attracting Others

“Never judge a book by its cover…   But assume everybody else is judging yours.”       What does your “cover” say about you?   What do people think they will see inside based on the image you present?   We all must face a simple fact: looks matter, and they matter a lot. Everything about your look sends messages to others.     Your sense of style can go a long way towards...

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How Can I Make Myself More Attractive?

“There are always answers.   We just need to be smart enough to listen.”       QUESTION (from jamesrebel130):   I am 23 years old and i am shy and maybe too skinny than i would like to be. But I know i have to change I cant even look at a beautiful woman without looking away. What should i do? I just wish I could submissive not play the dominant role.  Is there a way that i can make myself better with women/...

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Connecticut School Shooting Teaches Valuable Lessons

“One man with a gun can control 100 without one.”   Vladimir Lenin         Another tragic school shooting…another desperate search for answers, scapegoats, and solutions. Ever since the tragedy…mainstream and social media has been littered with the familiar debates over gun control, mental health, video game violence, song lyrics, etc. It’s fine to debate these things every time some wacko...

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Optimacy – Introduction – Members Read First!!!

  Welcome to Optimacy!       It’s great to have you join us…reading these lessons…and ready to learn new skills. You are now part of a select group and will soon experience advantages you’ve never had before.   Optimacy is really powerful stuff!     Besides improving your self-esteem and confidence, we also teach significant powers of persuasion and many subconscious methods of...

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