It’s great to have you join us…reading these lessons…and ready to learn new skills.

You are now part of a select group and will soon experience advantages you’ve never had before.


Optimacy is really powerful stuff!



Besides improving your self-esteem and confidence, we also teach significant powers of persuasion and many subconscious methods of communication.

Before we go further…a quick word about values, ethics, and manipulation.

We are not the ‘moral police’. What you do with these skills is for you to decide.  However, we urge you to have good intent and leave people in a better place than when you met them.  A win/win is always preferable to a win/loss scenario.


While it’s impossible to guarantee specific results…You will notice a huge boost to your success as long as youmake a commitment to follow our advice and apply the skills we teach.

You made a commitment by joining, so you’ve already separated yourself from those who aren’t committed.

Unlike those people who leave things to fate/chance, you will now have unprecedented control over your social life and experience much more success.

With the right attitude and practice…who knows…you may even become an Optimacy coach one day.




Let’s not get too far ahead of ourselves though…this is all about helping YOU FIRST!

You are about to learn some of the best information available on enhancing your attractiveness, meeting others, dating, and persuasion.


Please note…this isn’t boring academic material like most self-help/psychology books that you read once and put on the shelf.

You will find our lessons very easy to read and fun to experiment with.

We provide lots of examples and real-life case-studies from actual clients that show you specifically how to apply these skills.


You will learn on both a conscious and subconscious level so that these skills become intuitive.

There is no need to rush…in fact…we purposely feed you material at a certain pace, so impatience doesn’t sabotage your results.


You can’t learn to play Beethoven before learning chopsticks.

On day one, we provide you with a ton of core material that is designed to give you quick results and build a solid foundation.

Once you master the core material, then you will graduate to the advanced material that will blow your mind even further.

Here are some pointers to help you navigate the site and maximize your results.

First…we strongly suggest to go through everything in order (Chapter 1-3).

The sections all build on each other so it is designed to be read and used in order.


Chapter 1 focuses on improving your self-esteem and confidence.


Overlooking this step will sabotage your chances for success down the road, so spend the appropriate amount of time digesting these articles and practicing the exercises.

Even if you don’t think the title of the section applies to you, read it anyway.  You almost assuredly will pick up something helpful.


Chapter 2 focuses on meeting others.


Everything from where to meet, what to say, how to text, online dating, flirting, etc. is covered.  This is most client’s favorite chapter because there are so many real-life examples and case-studies that make it easy to implement.


Chapter 3 focuses on advanced concepts.


After completing Chapter 1 and 2, it’s time for advanced topics such as sex and other high level persuasion / subliminal communication.  Because there is a temptation to jump ahead to this material, some access is limited to this chapter will be limited early in your membership to give you time to fully digest and implement the core material in Chapters 1 and 2.

Please note that many of our techniques may be outside your normal comfort zone. This is a GOOD thing and very much intentional.

You have to try new things to grow.

If you’re not learning NEW things, then you won’t get different results.

Remember…you don’t need to rush…the goal is to over-practice and study to the point where these skills are natural and instinctive.

We hold your hand and walk you through every step, but if you have any questions don’t hesitate to email us, so that we can address it for you.

Also…please note at the bottom of each article are “Related Posts”.

You can progress to one of the next articles in each chapter via this method, or you can use the navigation categories on the right margin of each article.

I’m sure you’re excited to get started, so let’s not waste anymore time!



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